Q My son is 12 and is extremely gifted in math and science. He is also ADD. He is on medication and it has been very successful in helping him concentrate in class. However, he has a problem with getting his homework in. His grades this semester were much lower -- not because he couldn't do the work, but because assignments were handed in late or not at all. I'm not sure if he forgets to write down his assignments or if he does the homework and then forgets to hand it in. I have asked his teachers to send me the assignments, but I don't know if this will help build the skills he needs. A It is true that your son must learn to take responsibility for his school work. However, if he has ADHD (from your description it sounds like ADHD-Inattentive type), then he needs to learn to use some assistance properly. In cases like this, I have been able to get the school to appoint a teacher as a mentor to the student in order to teach him organization skills. You are probably thinking something like, 'I've already tried to teach him organization skills and he won't listen to me.' It's often amazing how someone other than a parent can get through to a student. (I think they must get used to the sound of our voices and automatically tune us out!) This person doesn't have to be one of your son's regular teachers -- just someone, preferably a male teacher in your son's case, with whom your son has a good relationship. They could meet twice a week and go over your son's school responsibilities. This has no cost to the school, is not embarrassing to your son, and takes you out of the struggle over homework. As a parent, you still have the right to do what I call a 'quality check' of your son's homework. Další návrhy, které mě napadají:
- Přineste mu složku obsahující pouze úkoly bez ohledu na předmět. Nikdy nedávejte domácí úkoly do učebnice.
- Potřebuje vaše dítě to, čemu se říká domácí dávka léků na ADHD? Někteří lékaři předepisují nižší dávku kolem 16. hodiny. Domácí úkol vám může pomoci soustředit se.
- Umožňuje škola vašemu dítěti používat elektronické zařízení (jako je Palm Flyer) ke sledování domácích úkolů? Pro mnoho dospělých s ADHD jsou elektronické pomůcky extrémně užitečné, aby zůstali na správné cestě.
Doporučuji také následující knihy, které obsahují mnoho užitečných rad pro studenty s ADHD: Do chaosu Autoři: Hallowell a Larty Přidejte příběh o úspěchu Hartmann a Rattija. spropitné
